Why is change so hard for some people? 

Why is change so hard for some people?

Okay, I will not bore you and rehash tonight's episode of "Sex in the City" but it did bring up some good points that I just really have to vent on. Why is it that so many people are afraid of change? I understand that most of the times change is not the most comfortable situation but it is inevitable. So why do most people try to fight the inevitable with all they have in their being? It takes a lot for a person to initiate change in their life and its even harder without the support system of good friends behind you. I believe that good friends should question the good and the bad of the situation because sometimes you need the third eye to make a good decision. However, when the questions have been answered and the answers weren't horribly wrong and a good solid decision was made...Well, just be happy for your good friend's decision eventhough it may change things a little in your life. In today's world, we have the technology to keep in touch at all times almost anywhere in the world. You just may have to put in a little more effort sometimes. Friends will change and the dynamics of our friendships will also change but a true friend can roll with the changes and still be there for in the midst of it all. I have always been happy for my friends and the changes in their lives (good changes of course). However, I have been in situations where "change" was happening in my life and I didn't feel a lot of support for my good "change." I don't say this in a way that I did not feel that my friends were being untrue to me, not at all. I know my friends just loved me and did not want me to leave but I felt like I was on trial up until the day I left. I am venting on this now just because I don't want any of my friends to feel like that ever. Like I said it takes a lot of guts to make a major change in your life. So I say to all my friends...."We only have one life to live so let's live it and not let it pass us by because we are scared of change." Change is inevitable...

Love and Kisses,
Rosebud